Is there some setting that allows you to put the vehicle in park, but not turn on the interior lights?

I put the car in theater mode lol.

Set the dome lights to off, instead of auto. It's under the "lights" section.

Press the lock button.

I think there is a dome lights setting in the light tab of settings that can do that

I'm guessing what you want is the dome lights to only come on when the door is opened. Unfortunately, you can't do that.

Yes, this. It seems so dumb. When I pull up to a store at night time and my wife is running into grab something, I don’t wanna sit there with all the interior lights on. Or when I pull up to my driveway in the evenings and I want to do something before going inside, I don’t wanna sit there with all the lights on. It’s so dumb. Essentially every car in existence turns the lights on when the door opens.