Update

14.2.1(honestly though I prefer 13.2.9, definitely was smother for me than 14.2.1 is)

Is my car eventually going to get 14?

Yes, took me like a week after taking delivery of my 24 model 3 a month ago before I got the update

Don’t stress out about updates, Tesla releases them uneven to cars alwaya

Seems like new vehicles are shipped with the "last best" release 13.2.9 while some of the in service fleet are being upgraded to 14.2.1. My 26 M3P was shipped with 13.2.9 almost a month ago and I haven't seen an update yet either. My guess is this is done to maximize the experience during the first 30nday demo. They don't want anyone to have a bad experience during a demo and not buy a subscription (see all the complaints about 14.2.1).

Keep it on v13. IMO, v14 has been a downgrade in most of the ways that have mattered.

Mine came with 14.2, I picked up two weeks ago.

Yea but new cars typically don't get any updates for the first couple weeks or even more. Apparently it takes Tesla a while to get them setup in their system. All the updates are "pushed" from Tesla's servers, nothing you can really do on the car to speed it up.